How to Keep Him Attracted to You - Things Girls Do That Guys Hate

To keep him attracted to you will involve him continuing to pay attention to you or being involved with you. An even better way to look at it is that you want to keep him fascinated or engrossed with you. So what you want is to keep the emotional connection or link that you have between the two of you going. You therefore want to remove or avoid anything that would weaken or break your bond of attraction. So what things do girls do that guys hate? What are the things that you need to avoid so that you can keep him attracted to you?

1. Half truths! Guys hate lies and half truths so if you want to keep him attracted to you then learn to tell him the truth. If you don't want him to know something then avoid the topic completely or let him know gently that you don't want to talk about it but avoid the lies and half truths as it breaks his trust in you and thus weakens his fascination with you... unless your lies are so fascinating that he stays with you for the lies which is a whole other situation as he is in it for the lies and not for you whoever you may be apart from the lies.

2. Expecting him to be a mind reader. Somehow girls get the idea that if a guy loves them then he will instinctively know what it is that they want. Guys hate it when you expect them to magically know what you want or expect from them. Tell him in plain and clear language what it is that you want.

3. Pouting and expecting him to fawn over you. It may have worked with your dad or granddad but most guys cannot stand pouting or the silent treatment or pretend that all well when you are clearly upset. A guy likes to solve a problem and for him to do that he must be able to identify the problem. When you pout or pretend or give him the silent treatment then he cannot identify the problem so he just withdraws from you a little. The more you do it the more he withdraws since he just feels helpless when you do that and no man wants to feel that way.

4. Expecting him to make you feel better about yourself. A common misconception is that when Mr. Right comes into your life he will make everything better. A guy cannot make you feel better about yourself. If you have a poor self image or you think that life is unfair to you then expecting a guy to save you from yourself is an attraction killer. To keep a guy attracted to you, you need to be happy in your own skin and focused on living.

5. Expecting him to be like your girlfriends. He is not like your girlfriends and he is not interested in the things that your girlfriends are interested in so give him a break sometimes and let him hang out with his guy friends doing guy things. His guy friends meet a need in his life that you cannot meet and he will be happier if he is true to himself.

6. Being your Siamese twin. Another misconception girls have is that if a guy loves them then he will spend every available waking time with them. A sure way to make your attraction stale is to spend every waking second with him. Give your heart time to miss him and have a life that you can share with him; and he with you.

7. Avoiding fights. Guys hates girls who pretend when they are upset so be true to who you are. When a disagreement occurs then have a fair fight with your guy. If he upsets you then let him know as that is what deepens your connection. Your ability to fight honestly and still stay together is a hallmark of your love and commitment to each other. If you avoid fights then this means that you are afraid that your relationship is not strong enough to withstand disagreements or that he does not love you enough to stay with the 'real' you and so you have to pretend to be amicable all the time. Fight fair so as to keep him attracted to you.

8. Taking life too seriously. Yes life is serious but you must have fun on the journey together. Guys hate girls who are too serious and will just not allow themselves to have any fun. Relax a little and enjoy life and the daily joys that it brings.

To keep him attracted to you requires that you be true to yourself. Be authentically you in your joys and angers so that he knows the real you and as he realizes that you are authentic then his heart opens to you and his attraction to you strengthens.

If you want to know what an attractive woman looks like then look at this guide to being an attractive woman but if you want a guide to become an attractive woman then I would recommend this step by step guide to becoming an attractive woman.