How To Go Up To Groups Of Girls You Do Not Know, And Make Them Think You're Great!

In this example I am going to use women in a bar. I'll be going into a number of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for the time being, we'll concentrate on this. In fact, I suggest you try the best places for picking up women that are not bars - they are way better than ANY bar and you'll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.

It's well known, women don't usually go to bars alone. They go in groups.

Approaching a group of girls can be extremely daunting and if you do not know what you are doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can tear you to shreds. I have witnessed men get sworn at, ignored totally and even drinks thrown over them.

But do the approach RIGHT, then your attempts with a group of women can usually yield great results.

If I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys look at me as if I am from another planet. I realize that loads of guys probably don't have the basic confidence to simply walk up to attractive women they don't know. Do not worry, this can be solved easily. I'll give you some simple tips.

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INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

Step 1. Wander around the shopping centre and when you catch a woman's eye, smile at her - more often than not, she will smile back. To begin with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don't WANT to smile back, they probably will. It's good practice.

Step 2. Once you've gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could progress to other girls there. I am not suggesting freakish smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. Most women will smile back at you.

Step 3. Here's where it may seem a little odd, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make it easier. Just say "Hi" with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you wander around. It will feel HORRIBLE at the start if you are not that confident but slowly, after an hour or so, it'll get easier.

After you have smiled and said "Hi" to 20 to 30 women, you should begin to feel good (as long as you don't give up on your first negative response - this will happen and will happen when you are approaching women to pick them up - you MUST learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

I know someone who tried the "smile at women" technique and he actually ended up meeting the woman of his dreams and 3 years later, they are still together - how is that for effective!

Right, let's assume that you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you do not know in a bar. Again, I do not just suggest trying to meet women, in a bar, in fact, the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar - I think it's everyday places where you're not trying to compete with other single men.

Firstly, let's assume two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the 'ugly' one and one is the hot one! Go up to them and talk to them NOW! DO NOT waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, go up to them. Many people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

If you see her and like her, it's best not to worry too much about the approach, or you are more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you'll just chicken out altogether!

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. NEVER from behind - IMPORTANT!!! If you go up to the group at the bar from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side.