How To Give Your Girlfriend or Wife an Amazing Massage

This Valentine's Day, add a special touch to anything you have planned by ending the evening with a super fabulous massage just for her. This selfless act is not only a super romantic way to make her feel special and show her how much you care, but also gives her a chance to relax and be pampered by you. So get ready to rock her world with a sexy and sensual massage she'll hopefully never forget!

Getting Prepared:

Step 1: Choosing the Space

So before we get to the part where she's almost (or completely) naked and covered in oil, make sure you have everything well thought out. It's important to create a comfortable space free of distractions (i.e. cell phones off!) where you can set the mood for a romantic massage. The bedroom is likely an ideal spot for most, but creating a soft surface on the floor also works great. If you're using the bed, be sure it's well-prepared by using clean sheets (that she's ok with getting oil on, since it can stain) or even covering the bed with towels. Presentation is important here, so make sure it looks nice, and whatever you do, no tacky beach towels! If you're desperate, check the dollar store for some white or neutral colored towels or bed sheets that won't set you back too much. Staining her 600 thread-count Egyptian cotton bedding with massage oil is not romantic!

Step 2: Setting the Mood

Now that you have the space chosen, it's important to make sure you have all of the massage elements that are essential to setting the mood and creating the proper ambiance. It's up to you how far you want to take it, but things like scented candles (avoiding anything too perfumey or strong), rose petals, and calming music are all great ways to set a relaxing atmosphere and make it romantic.

Step 3: Getting the Products

Having a nice massage oil on hand is critical to achieving a relaxing experience for both of you. Avoid anything too heavily scented, and look for products specifically for massages, since these provide the nicest texture and won't absorb too quickly (re-applying every minute ruins the flow). If you're looking for an alternative to massage oils, there are also massage bars that melt on contact with skin, as well as massage candles that double as heated oil when poured onto the skin. Although they provide the most pleasant experience, you don't necessarily need fancy massage products to get the job done. In a pinch, you can use a rich body butter, baby oil, or sunflower oil, adding a few drops of an essential oil for fragrance. Olive oil is an absolute don't! Smelling like a Greek salad is not a great way to put her in the mood. Also avoid lube. Sure, it works, but it's also suggestive and slightly crude. Let's stay classy.

Applying Techniques:

Step 4: Giving the Massage

Now, the most important part; giving an amazing massage. Once she's lying down, place a pillow under her feet to make her more comfortable. Carefully pour a bit of massage oil into your hands and rub them together. This warms the oil up, and is better than pouring it directly on her skin, which can be cold and a bit jolting. Avoid using too much oil, which will make the massage slippery and difficult (you can always add more). Slow, continuous movement is important for a good massage. Allow one stroke to lead into another, as you slowly shift to other areas of her body. Begin with her neck and shoulders, using your thumbs and finger tips to knead her skin gently. Apply less pressure to her neck, as this area is usually very tender to the touch. Gradually move in a circular motion from her upper back, to her sides, and then down towards her lower back. Apply additional oil as you need, and continue working down both of her legs (focusing on one leg at a time), until you reach her feet. Massage the soles of her feet in steady circular motions with your thumbs, applying slightly more pressure to avoid tickling her.

Step 5: Knowing the Pleasure Points

Pay attention to areas of her body that aren't frequently stimulated. Try caressing erogenous zones such as the back of her knees, her ears, nape of her neck, and her wrists. Be sure not to forget massaging her scalp, as this area often gets overlooked during a massage. Just make sure your hands are free of oil if you go near her hair, or that nice idea may not be so welcomed by her.

Step 6: Getting her Feedback

Communication is the key to an amazing massage. Always be paying attention to her body language and how she responds to different strokes, the pressure level, and where you're massaging her. If you're unsure, gently ask her what feels good, and if the pressure is okay. Spend extra time on the areas that she responds positively to with verbal cues or physical signs of enjoyment.

Other Considerations:

Keep distractions to a minimum. This experience should be about the two of you connecting and enjoying your time together, so cell phones, TV's, and any other potential distractions should be removed.

Avoid rushing and set aside enough time. To properly give a massage, you should be spending at least 20-30 minutes on her. The slower and longer you can massage her, the more relaxing and sensual the experience will be.

Turn the heat up - literally. It's not fun to be exposed and covered in oil when you're freezing. By keeping the temperature over 75 degrees F, you'll ensure she stays warm and comfortable so she's able to enjoy the experience.

Be gentle. Go easy there, Hulk. It's important to remember the pressure level you might prefer is likely not what feels best for her. She's delicate and women are much more sensitive to touch than men, so ease up on the pressure. Unless she requests otherwise, light gentle strokes are usually preferred.

Don't forget extras. This all depends on your relationship level, personal preferences, and your imagination. Incorporating other elements can eventually lead a sensual massage into naughtier territory and be a perfect way to spice it up a little. Items such as feather ticklers, heated lubricants, blind folds, and edible body paints are great ways to add some sexy fun.

How To Go Up To Groups Of Girls You Do Not Know, And Make Them Think You're Great!

In this example I am going to use women in a bar. I'll be going into a number of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for the time being, we'll concentrate on this. In fact, I suggest you try the best places for picking up women that are not bars - they are way better than ANY bar and you'll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.

It's well known, women don't usually go to bars alone. They go in groups.

Approaching a group of girls can be extremely daunting and if you do not know what you are doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can tear you to shreds. I have witnessed men get sworn at, ignored totally and even drinks thrown over them.

But do the approach RIGHT, then your attempts with a group of women can usually yield great results.

If I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys look at me as if I am from another planet. I realize that loads of guys probably don't have the basic confidence to simply walk up to attractive women they don't know. Do not worry, this can be solved easily. I'll give you some simple tips.

If you have got a major confidence problem then do not panic, there is an advanced 155-page E-book available called HypnoDate which almost totally goes into increasing your confidence with girls - and it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it doesn't matter how shy you may be, these methods WILL work for you. It's well worth getting a copy.

INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

Step 1. Wander around the shopping centre and when you catch a woman's eye, smile at her - more often than not, she will smile back. To begin with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don't WANT to smile back, they probably will. It's good practice.

Step 2. Once you've gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could progress to other girls there. I am not suggesting freakish smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. Most women will smile back at you.

Step 3. Here's where it may seem a little odd, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make it easier. Just say "Hi" with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you wander around. It will feel HORRIBLE at the start if you are not that confident but slowly, after an hour or so, it'll get easier.

After you have smiled and said "Hi" to 20 to 30 women, you should begin to feel good (as long as you don't give up on your first negative response - this will happen and will happen when you are approaching women to pick them up - you MUST learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

I know someone who tried the "smile at women" technique and he actually ended up meeting the woman of his dreams and 3 years later, they are still together - how is that for effective!

Right, let's assume that you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you do not know in a bar. Again, I do not just suggest trying to meet women, in a bar, in fact, the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar - I think it's everyday places where you're not trying to compete with other single men.

Firstly, let's assume two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the 'ugly' one and one is the hot one! Go up to them and talk to them NOW! DO NOT waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, go up to them. Many people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

If you see her and like her, it's best not to worry too much about the approach, or you are more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you'll just chicken out altogether!

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. NEVER from behind - IMPORTANT!!! If you go up to the group at the bar from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side.

How To Get an Ex Wife Back - The Techniques

A family will not be complete without the presence of a wife. So, if you and your wife are separated right now, you don't have a family to call your own even if your kids are with you. Just like with the many husbands in this world, you surely don't want to have a messy life. So, to fix everything, you have to know the techniques on how to get an ex wife back.

First Technique - Figure Out Your Mistakes

Can you still remember the days when you and your wife were still together? Can you still remember those fights that you had every night? Then you should also know the reason why it happened. If you know that you have done mistakes in the relationship, you have to grow from them and ask for forgiveness. Now is the right time to swallow your pride because if you will not do it, your life will surely be a mess forever.

There is a right timing when you should ask for forgiveness. Don't do it right away because if the wound of the breakup is still fresh, your wife will surely not appreciate it. Wait until everything is alright.

Second Technique - Fulfill the Responsibilities of Your Wife

You need to show your wife that you are sorry for yourself. One way on how you can do this is to fulfill the responsibilities of your wife. While she is away, your children needs to be cared for so make sure that their needs are met. If your wife knew about this, she will really admire you for being a responsible father.

Third Technique - Have a Makeover

Aside from women, men can also have a makeover. This can be one of the best ways that will back you up in getting your ex wife back. By having a new look, that will give your ex wife the notion that you want to get her back.

Fourth Technique - Initiate the Contact

After having a makeover, you can already have the confidence in making a contact with her. Just invite her for the meetup and say that you want to tell something very important. No matter what her answer is, you just have to be ready.

These are just some of the techniques on how to get an ex wife back. Hope the information in this article can help you to succeed in your mission of saving your family.

Three Things Women Don't Know About Men

When dealing with relationships, women are very thoughtful. By thoughtful, meaning full of thoughts and ideas. In other words, women use their brains to "think through" their intimate encounters. Studies show that a greater percentage of women will leave a relationship if they feel that their significant other does not love them anymore. However, a greater percentage of men will leave a relationship if they fall in love with someone else.

This is a big difference in the way each gender thinks about relationships. Women are more considerate and thoughtful--using their minds, while men are more impulsive and raw--using their hearts (also referred to as genitals). Not to say that either way is more correct than the other, just to say that the first step to increased harmony is the realization of this fact.

Here are three facts about men that may come as a surprise to most women.

1 - Men Only Need Minimal Details

Many women like to explain every fact, figure, and manipulation for every subject, no matter how relevant/irrelevant. In addition to this, women prefer to listen to dialogue in this manner. This presents a problem because men rarely converse in this manner, barring excitement. But women usually speak this way, regardless of mood. This leads to frustration on both sides. As a general rule, when speaking to men, listen for their questions, then expound (minimally) on that topic. If they want to know more, they will ask another question. If the man does not ask any questions, he may not be interested in what you are talking about, and it may be a better idea to ask him a question instead. This gives him a chance to introduce what's on his mind. Be aware that the way in which women ask questions can also irritate a man.

TIP: Do not ask a man "What if...?" instead ask "Do you think...?" It may be subtle, but what if? questions can be interpreted as pointless questions that may never occur, whereas do you think? questions force you to consider the question as though it would happen in the future. Men respond better to questions of this sort. However, women prefer to entertain what if? thoughts over do you think? questions. This is a slight, but pivotal difference between men and women.

2 - The More A Woman Trusts A Man, The More She Will Be On His Mind

This mostly applies to when men spend alone time with "the fellas" or even in solitude. Men like women who are caring, but can also bear inattention. If you get upset over too much inattention, it shows the man that you care about him, and this is a good argument to have. But if you get upset over one or two nights out with the guys, he will interpret that as jealousy and/or neediness, which are two unattractive qualities to men. Instead, encourage the man to spend time with his friends, an indication of the trust you have for him. On top of this, spend some alone time with your friends while waiting for his return. If the man gets upset at you spending time with your friends, it would show his lack of trust for you, something that should be addressed and worked on over time.

TIP: After his night out, do not ask "What did you guys do...?" or any other form of the question, instead ask "How was it...?" and allow the man to respond from impulse. Be cautious of trying to probe beyond the answer he gives, especially if he gives a short and simple response. If you can show him that you weren't up all night worrying about what he was doing (even if you were), it further demonstrates the trust you have for him. In turn, he may surprise you by going into more detail in the future, even during the same conversation.

3 - Men Slowly Change Their Minds Over Time

Many men will not admit this last one, even when it occurs. The reason is because we are very impulsive. We do not assess our feelings on a daily basis. We may feel a certain way one week/month/year, but may feel completely different later on. The change could be faster or slower, depending on the person/issue. However, most of this change will be internal. Meaning that it will be nearly impossible to notice on the surface. If you want to change a man's mind on an issue, you cannot constantly remind him of the issue because it gives inadequate time for the internal results to take place. Instead, bring up the issue once, and if there is no resolve, simply agree that you guys are having a disagreement. Then let it rest for awhile (6-12 months suggested), then present the issue again as if it never came up. Surprisingly, he may hold a softer position than he did previously. However, I would strongly advise not trying this for every disagreement that arises.

TIP: Men are quicker to forgive and forget an argument than women. Women tend to hold on longer. While the perception of arguing may seem negative, remember that some arguments are necessary for healthy relationships. Yet, many women cause arguments to increase in intensity when they consistently remind the man of the issue, rather than allowing him to forgive and forget.

The best advice: Do not try and "win" a man's heart. Men will slowly open up over time. But the more you try to impress, convince, or change him (using your thoughtfulness and consideration), the more his impulses (and genitals) will be compromised. Try just one of the tips above, and see if you notice a difference.

How to Keep Him Attracted to You - Things Girls Do That Guys Hate

To keep him attracted to you will involve him continuing to pay attention to you or being involved with you. An even better way to look at it is that you want to keep him fascinated or engrossed with you. So what you want is to keep the emotional connection or link that you have between the two of you going. You therefore want to remove or avoid anything that would weaken or break your bond of attraction. So what things do girls do that guys hate? What are the things that you need to avoid so that you can keep him attracted to you?

1. Half truths! Guys hate lies and half truths so if you want to keep him attracted to you then learn to tell him the truth. If you don't want him to know something then avoid the topic completely or let him know gently that you don't want to talk about it but avoid the lies and half truths as it breaks his trust in you and thus weakens his fascination with you... unless your lies are so fascinating that he stays with you for the lies which is a whole other situation as he is in it for the lies and not for you whoever you may be apart from the lies.

2. Expecting him to be a mind reader. Somehow girls get the idea that if a guy loves them then he will instinctively know what it is that they want. Guys hate it when you expect them to magically know what you want or expect from them. Tell him in plain and clear language what it is that you want.

3. Pouting and expecting him to fawn over you. It may have worked with your dad or granddad but most guys cannot stand pouting or the silent treatment or pretend that all well when you are clearly upset. A guy likes to solve a problem and for him to do that he must be able to identify the problem. When you pout or pretend or give him the silent treatment then he cannot identify the problem so he just withdraws from you a little. The more you do it the more he withdraws since he just feels helpless when you do that and no man wants to feel that way.

4. Expecting him to make you feel better about yourself. A common misconception is that when Mr. Right comes into your life he will make everything better. A guy cannot make you feel better about yourself. If you have a poor self image or you think that life is unfair to you then expecting a guy to save you from yourself is an attraction killer. To keep a guy attracted to you, you need to be happy in your own skin and focused on living.

5. Expecting him to be like your girlfriends. He is not like your girlfriends and he is not interested in the things that your girlfriends are interested in so give him a break sometimes and let him hang out with his guy friends doing guy things. His guy friends meet a need in his life that you cannot meet and he will be happier if he is true to himself.

6. Being your Siamese twin. Another misconception girls have is that if a guy loves them then he will spend every available waking time with them. A sure way to make your attraction stale is to spend every waking second with him. Give your heart time to miss him and have a life that you can share with him; and he with you.

7. Avoiding fights. Guys hates girls who pretend when they are upset so be true to who you are. When a disagreement occurs then have a fair fight with your guy. If he upsets you then let him know as that is what deepens your connection. Your ability to fight honestly and still stay together is a hallmark of your love and commitment to each other. If you avoid fights then this means that you are afraid that your relationship is not strong enough to withstand disagreements or that he does not love you enough to stay with the 'real' you and so you have to pretend to be amicable all the time. Fight fair so as to keep him attracted to you.

8. Taking life too seriously. Yes life is serious but you must have fun on the journey together. Guys hate girls who are too serious and will just not allow themselves to have any fun. Relax a little and enjoy life and the daily joys that it brings.

To keep him attracted to you requires that you be true to yourself. Be authentically you in your joys and angers so that he knows the real you and as he realizes that you are authentic then his heart opens to you and his attraction to you strengthens.

If you want to know what an attractive woman looks like then look at this guide to being an attractive woman but if you want a guide to become an attractive woman then I would recommend this step by step guide to becoming an attractive woman.

Here's What to Do When Your Spouse Cheats On You

There are women who are struggle on whether or not they should forgive their husbands for having an extramarital affair. It is very hard to forgive especially since your partner has ruined your trust.

Remember that cheating has huge consequences on both parties. It all starts with a suspicion and then you find fool-proof evidence that indeed your husband has another woman. After catching him, there are certain things that need to be done.

Don't make rash decisions but give yourself time

A lot of husbands will give overflowing apologies after getting caught. Oftentimes, this is due to the fact that they are guilty. For betrayed women, this is not the case. There are a lot of things that should be considered and one of this is his sincerity.

Most of the time, it is wise to wait and see first because some men can bring you the moon to let you know how sorry they are for committing infidelity. Don't be afraid to impose certain rules and see if he is cooperative enough to save the marriage.

Avoid blaming yourself for the infidelity

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How Do I Make My Husband Feel My Pain After His Cheating And Affair

I often hear from wives who tell me that they would give anything for their husband to feel the pain that his cheating has forced upon them. They often feel as if he really has no idea of the pain that they are in, nor does he have any clue as to how they really feel.

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What Men Want In Women - Sex or Romance? (You Won't Believe It)

What Men Want In Women - Sex or Romance? (You Won't Believe It)

Conventional wisdom tells us that what men want in women is primal. Put simply, men want sex. Of course, I shouldn't say all men. But realistically, it seems to me that most young men, and even a growing number of old ones, find relationships to be a necessary inconvenience that must be endured in order to satisfy primeval urges.

On the other hand, conventional wisdom also tells us that women are typically looking for romance, stability, and love. The conflict between what men want and what women want is a classic one, as the subject has been part of our western experience, ad infinitum. These are the stereotypes that seem to ring true.

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How to Get Your Ex Back - Step by Step

How To Get Your Ex Back - Step by Step

Nothing in life is guaranteed - especially when it comes to relationships and knowing how to get your ex back. If you're reading this, my heart goes out to you because I have experienced, first-hand, the pain you're going through. Breaking up with someone is bad enough, but if you've been suddenly dumped for no apparent reason, the emotional anguish can be intense.  

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Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Using Dirty Psychological Tricks

If you're reading this, you're probably suffering emotionally over the loss of someone you love greatly. The specific circumstances don't matter right now - maybe you did something wrong, maybe they did. But the relationship ended somehow and now you want to get your ex girlfriend back.

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How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You Again

How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You Again

When you go through a breakup that you didn't personally plan on happening, it can be a real rough spot in your life. Being dumped by the love of your life is a really hard fall, one that a lot of people have a hard time recovering from. When you're still in love with the person you now have to call your "ex," the entire world just seems crappy...but the good news is that it's by no means impossible to rekindle the way your ex once felt about you and get your relationship back on track.

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How to Get Your Ex Back - The Do's and Don'ts

Another great article. Just follow the instructions and you'll see if your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is really your soul mate. If it is your romance will burn for a long time. Download is for free, of course ;)

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How to get your ex - boyfriend to want you back

How to get your ex - boyfriend  to want you back? That's the question that bothers many girls. Now cheer up and download this article beacuse all the answers are in it. 

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